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I will never forget the look on my daughters face that time I gave her an “F” on a weekly quiz. I don’t remember the subject but I do remember the look on her face. It said, “my mom just gave me an “F”! She has never made an “F” since, maybe a “C” when she stops trying occasionally, but she is mostly an “A” student like her parents.
But what do the facts say about allowing failure? In fact, research suggests that a developing child mustencounter both success and failure to form an accurate self-image. This accurate self-image is necessary to equip them for tasks in later life.
This development of self-image and how a child encounters life is in essence the story of how he or she will relate to others both now and later in life. Allowing children to face and overcome failure early in life is significant to the development of self, identity, and psychosocial maturity.
What are some ways a homeschool parent can do this?
Adventure PlayAdventure play and project learning typically involve challenging physical tasks such as rock climbing, zip lines and survival camping however these activities can also include problem solving tasks and mental challenges. Research supports that overcoming a challenge produces an increase in self-esteem. This overcoming builds a memory base to which the child can refer back later. “I did that, so I can do this.”
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This same memory bank is built earlier in life when a child plays with an educational toy; as the child masters a complicated toy he or she develops a memory of self-esteem. Educational toysare toys that prompt a child to environmental interaction; when a child plays with an educational toy it will sway, spin, swing, tumble, walk, float, rotate, roll or fly. These interactions not only help the child to understand basic environmental concepts such as gravitational pull they also allow a child to master the most basic of tasks forming the first self-images.
Talk to Your Children About Failure
Researchers studied conversation between parents and children comparing conversation that took place during conflict such as bad behavior and conversations regarding past negative events and found that when parents and children talked about these events they were able to turn the event from negative to positive. It is not so much how you fail but how you remember the failure.
In the end, allowing your child to experience both success and failure and providing them with positive support is the most effective way to raise a well-rounded adult with a healthy self-image. Let your child try something new today.
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